Introducing Grandma's Place

It's hard to believe that as of this year, I have lived in Ontario for 27 years.  In some ways it feels like it cannot possibly be that long -- and in others, a little like I've always been here.  It only takes looking at the faces of our (not so) little (anymore) people, and the littles that they gave us to truly see how long it has been and how much has changed. 

Renew, Recharge, Refresh - One Step at a time

 

Each year we head into the new year with thoughts and plans of renewal, of change, and of resolutions - so many promises made only to be cast aside as we adventure into the new year.  It's just the way it goes. 

Wishing my colleagues, family and friends a very Happy Thanksgiving weekend!

It's been a rough year (so far). We have had way too many funerals, and not enough social gatherings and happy news. Yet somehow here we are, happy and reasonably healthy despite it all. I can't help but be grateful for that.

It's ok to start again .. and again..

Sometimes it seems like my life is a constant state of stops and starts.  While often exciting, it's always busy and it's quite often frustrating.  

Brain droppings of another new normal.

We had so many plans for this Summer, with and without the kids.  I love having (some of) the kids here, but it comes with a great cost. 

WTF: On technology taking over the world or at least MY world.

A few months back my husband went out and bought a Google mini to try out. He'd heard a lot about them and wanted to play-test one and see if they were worth all the hype. 

It was during the holidays and the kids were all down.  We all laughed at our eldest talking to Google and trying to trip "her" up.  Even our (almost) 6-year-old grandson got in on the act once we figured out he could ask Google to "tell him a joke."  We'd later learn that she could also play games, tell stories, broadcast messages from one mini to the other among a variety of other skills -- some more useful than others. 

There were on sale that week, so after a few days of amusement hubby went out and bought 2 more.  My favourite thing to do was to have it stream a radio station or a Spotify playlist and have it play on all of the speakers so the music literally flowed through our entire house.  

There are quite a few other great options with the system that are totally customizable.  Simply saying Good morning kicks off a weather report for our area and highlights of our area news, and national news.  It can also turn lights on and off (if you have the special adaptors and/or switches to facilitate that).  You can set up goodnight, I'm home and a variety of other triggers too. 

The addition leaves us feeling rather Jetson-esque.  It's great to be able to quickly refer to google without having to dig into your pocket.  I don't know how many times I'd asked it to calculate this or that or look up a piece of information. 

Another great feature is the "where's my phone" feature.  Shh. Don't tell hubby I said that's one of his most used features.  

My mother-in-law got an echo for Christmas so we began researching it a little more deeply to learn how to use it so we could help her learn to use it.  In the following weeks, hubby would go out and get door locks to work in conjunction with this new addition.  This, of course, would carry over to our house as well. It wasn't long before we had one in our living room too.  

It was hilarious to be trying to address Alexa and having Google complain that they didn't know who we were talking to, and Alexa doing her version of the same.  At least the programmers had some fun with it.  

Somewhere along hubby's research path he learned that the automatic door locks, thermostats and what not worked better with Alexa than they did with Google.  We'd been looking at the corresponding "tablets" and weighing the worth of possibly getting one of those for the kitchen.  Could be a lot of fun for looking up recipes -- E-friendly too because you wouldn't have to print it out.  I wonder if you can save recipes to it though, I'll have to look into that. 

We discovered an interesting additional feature on Alexa this morning.  Boredom got the best of me and I said, "Alexa Good morning" to which she replied good morning and informed she had a great shelf of books and that we could ask her daily what book she was reading.  I went to look it up and found that they are adding new features to their system for our use and enjoyment. Aside from getting your news on demand (and hands-free!) there a wide variety of things to try.  You can check them out here.  

blog.aboutamazon.com/devices/alexa-and-amazon-devices-covid-19-resources

We've added a couple more echos and a Show to our "family" recently and have been enjoying the getting to know you phase of this new relationship.  Our grandson loves Alexa SO much because Google quite often didn't understand what he'd said and Alexa seemed to be much more forgiving.   

He loves that Grandpa got one for the spare room so he can lie in bed and ask Alexa to tell him jokes or tell him a story.  Grandma and Grandpa have learned that being able to tell Alexa to play lullabies or play Disney music is a wonderful feature for the littles.  It also has a drop-in feature so you can use it for an intercom and check on what's happening in that room (aurally not visually). 

All in all these toys both have their great features, and we'll keep them both if only because it's amusing to hear them argue with each other when we address one or the other.  

We're trying out a new topic to be featured on the blog regularly. A tongue-in-cheek "WTF," which we're using for "What Tammy Found."  You may find a product review, a new website or hangout, who knows what I'll find.  

Thanks for stopping by!  

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2020: Catch-up to the Party - It's already here!

It's hard to believe that it has been over a year since I last sat down and hammered out a blog post.

It's not that I haven't tried, in fact,  I have many beginnings that got interrupted and never revisited.  Or I'd get on a bit of a soapbox tangent, and cast it aside and when I'd return it would no longer feel relevant.  

A great many other updates occurred directly to social media.  Often on the fly as a passenger in the car to one place or another.  

It seems crazy to me to think that I'd ever find myself to be too busy to do the things I love most but here we are.  I've an overwhelming desire to stand out on the rooftop a number of times just to shout out "Stop the world, I wanna get off!"  Oh to have a quiet day with no commitments to anyone.  I forget what that is.  Every time I think I have the day figured out something or someone pops up to redirect the flow. 

So many of my regular pursuits and things in progress were left hanging on the clothesline.  Now to pick each one up, dust it off and determine whether it should be sent off to the bit bucket or returned to service.  It will take some time but I'll get there.  

Thankfully being in the med-zone lent me somewhat of a mandatory slow down for a while. A chance to pause, to re-group and to plot my next steps.  So many plans and half-baked projects to work on. So many dreams left to fullfil.  If not now -- when?  has been quite prevalent on my mind.  I turned 50 this year.  I'm not getting any younger.  

We welcomed our newest grandchild to the family just a few days after my birthday.  With her comes a big brother who we've only just begun to know but we love him to bits already.  2 boys and 2 girls ~ we are so very blessed.  You don't know unconditional love 'til your baby's baby calls you Grandma, I swear! 

I was marvelling with a couple of good friends this week just how long it's been since we've all had the time -- taken the time -- to get together and just BE.  When did life get so damned busy?  It has been months since I got inky fingers -- you know that's a rarity around here.  

As kids, we were all in such a huge hurry to grow up. We'd be adults, we could do whatever we wanted.  Stay up as late as we wanted, eat whatever we wanted, with no restrictions.  Yeah.  How did that work out for you?  

As parents of sometimes cranky teens, we looked forward to a day when they'd be adults and we'd just be us again.  Just when we'd acclimated ourselves to what that might look like, grandbabies arrived.  That's not to say I'm complaining, but rather pointing out that we always seem to want to be somewhere other than where we are.  Isn't that strange?  These days, I'm happy just to be in my cave, puttering around my house and not having to go anywhere.  Those days are pretty rare.  

I spent much of the last year in preparation mode.  In between the day-to-day and running around I was gearing up for a long-awaited surgery.  Bi-weekly check-ins and plotting took me out of the cave a lot more than I had been used to in a very long time.  Surgery brought on a variety of changes and plotting around homecare.  On a plus note, I'm feeling better now than I have in a very long time.  Still have a ways to go, but for the first time in a long time, there's hope.  

I've gotten to spend copious amounts of time with any variety of our kids and grandchildren. Honestly, they've been my salvation.  No matter how crazy life gets, they can always make me smile -- especially those littles. My goodness!! Our little people make awesome little people. <3 

We're finally in the home stretch of wound care, and things are slowly beginning to get back to normal -- whatever that is -- or a reasonable facsimile.  Picking up and getting back on track feels a little like sorting socks, but we're hanging in there. 

Here's to getting back to the fray!